When I was growing up, spring was the signal for an all-out war on dust and dirt at our house. Mom removed and cleaned the curtains and drapes, got on her hands and knees to strip and wax the kitchen and dining room floors, and cleaned out every inch of the kitchen cabinets and every closet. Taking care of her family was her full time job—and she did it well. Most days we could’ve eaten off the kitchen floor because it was so clean. (Some days you can eat off my kitchen floor because there are enough crumbs to feed a small country.) When my brothers and sisters and I were at school, my mom had many uninterrupted hours to order her home. As a homeschool mom, my time is divided between home and school so I had to find an alternative. “Many hands make light work.” (John Heywood) When daughter #4 arrived, I knew I could no longer do everything around the house on my own. The oldest was only 6 and the next was 4, but I immediately enlisted their help. My solution was based in three principles: 1.The girls couldn’t do everything I did, but they could certainly do some things. 2. If their hands were busy working with me, it would be more difficult for them to undo what I was trying to do. 3. Working together as a family, no matter what the project, would build teamwork. And so I invented The Cleaning Game--a fun way for our family to work as a team to clean our home. When the house is clean, everyone wins!
How to eat an elephant You’ve probably heard the saying, “How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.” The same principle works for the overwhelming task of cleaning a home—take one bite at a time. The Cleaning Game (TCG) is played with 100+ task cards that each list one bite-sized task, brief instructions for how to accomplish the task and a list of supplies needed. Cards include chores for two vehicles and houses with 6 bedrooms and four baths. Blank cards are included so you can customize the game to meet the needs of your family. Three diligent, expert players over the age of 6 are able to clean a 4 bedroom, 2 bath home in under 3 hours—not including floors.
“You can expect what you inspect.” (Anonymous) Remove any cards from the deck that don’t apply to your family. Begin by dealing the cards to each player. (TCG comes with instruction cards explaining several different ways to play with the same deck of cards, but our family plays once a week.) I recommend that you introduce a few tasks each week, instructing and demonstrating how the task would be completed to your satisfaction. Add tasks each week until all cards have been introduced. Ideally, players who can read can work independently, however it is critical that work is inspected and that players receive both positive and negative feedback—especially in the start-up phase. Parents can choose cards, remain only an “Inspector”, or complete the jobs that children are unable to do. Players seem to be best motivated when a parent is involved in some part of the process.
“A family that plays together, stays together.” (Joy Moore) If you are interested in playing with your family, you have two options: purchase a CD with the pdf file of The Cleaning Game for $7.99 and free shipping OR purchase and download the pdf file of The Cleaning Game for the introductory rate of $3.99 during the month of March. Both forms of The Cleaning Game are available only at the Daughters 4 God Shoppe.